Fix cargo remove incorrectly removing used patches
### What does this PR try to resolve?
Fixes an issue where patches are being removed when member dependencies don't explicitly contain the patched crate.
Fixes#12419
### How should we test and review this PR?
- Created a test for the failing use case
- Verify passing test
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