rustc_llvm: adapt to flattened CLI args in LLVM
This changed in
llvm/llvm-project@e190d074a0. I decided to stick with more duplication between the ifdef blocks to make the code easier to read for the next two years before we can plausibly drop LLVM 19.
`@rustbot` label: +llvm-main
try-job: x86_64-msvc
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