Enforce that `dyn*` coercions are actually pointer-sized
Implement a perma-unstable, rudimentary `PointerSized` trait to enforce `dyn*` casts are `usize`-sized for now, at least to prevent ICEs and weird codegen issues from cropping up after monomorphization since currently we enforce *nothing*.
This probably can/should be removed in favor of a more sophisticated trait for handling `dyn*` conversions when we decide on one, but I just want to get something up for discussion and experimentation for now.
r? ```@eholk``` cc ```@tmandry``` (though feel free to claim/reassign)
Fixes#102141Fixes#102173