Don't ICE when an extern static is too big for the current architecture
Fixes#93760
Emit an error instead of ICEing when an `extern` static's size overflows the allowed maximum for the target.
Changes the error message in the existing `delay_span_bug` call to the true layout error, first for debugging purposes, but opted to leave in to potentially assist future developers as it was being reached in unexpected ways already.
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