Breaking changes:
* integer decoding will now loudly error on overflow instead of silently truncating.
* some usages of the query!() macros might change an i32 to an i64.
Also adds support for *decoding* `u64`s because there's no reason not to.
Closes#3179
Inlined format args make code more readable, and code more compact.
I ran this clippy command to fix most cases, and then cleaned up a few trailing commas and uncaught edge cases.
```
cargo clippy --bins --examples --benches --tests --lib --workspace --fix -- -A clippy::all -W clippy::uninlined_format_args
```
